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In love, engaged, married – a sequence that newly in love couples had to strictly follow in earlier times to say yes. The engagement was even considered a preparation phase for marriage itself and was celebrated with a engagement ring and an engagement party. Today, couples usually no longer celebrate this step, although the engagement represents a significant change in life. Yet there are numerous advantages that speak in favor of an engagement party.
Engagement Party – Yes or No?
Many couples nowadays do not organize an engagement party because they want to enjoy the engagement only in a small circle and do not want to incur more costs than for the big wedding. However, celebrating the engagement offers numerous advantages – the party does not have to cost a fortune, a cozy barbecue evening is completely sufficient. In this way, the families of the engaged couple can get to know each other better, provided they have not seen each other often. Moreover, the celebration is a wonderful opportunity to ask the best man and maid of honor and hand out save-the-date cards for the wedding. Additionally, the couple can directly test how stress-prone and reliable the partner is.

Engagement Party – Ideas for Planning
The celebration does not have to be a huge event; it is already sufficient at home in a small circle, depending on the size of the guest list. The guest list is usually significantly shorter than at the wedding celebration, as only the closest relatives and friends participate. They are all the more delighted to be surprised personally with the joyful news. Those who are fans of a big party can of course also directly rehearse for the real thing – the wedding – and put on the full program with invitation cards, dress code, and entertainment.

The Right Timing
It is advisable not to wait too long after the engagement to hold the party. Ideally, the party takes place in the weeks following the marriage proposal, so that the news of the engagement promise is still fresh. A good guideline is three to eight weeks after the big question. An engagement party is also an excellent opportunity to share the joyful news with your closest friends and relatives in person. Additionally, a timely engagement party does not interfere with the actual wedding preparations, which include selecting wedding rings.
The Invitations
For small engagement parties, a verbal invitation is completely sufficient. However, if the celebration is to be very formal, it is advisable to send invitation cards. These can be either purchased or custom-made. Similar to wedding invitations, the cards should include a deadline by which guests can confirm or decline. This way, the future engaged couple can plan better.
The Venue
Unlike a wedding, it is neither necessary nor customary to rent a hall. Rather, the party takes place in your own home or in a restaurant. The advantage of a restaurant is that the couple does not have to worry about anything and the ambiance can be chosen appropriately. However, the high costs associated with the restaurant speak against it. An engagement party in your own garden is also more intimate and can be more easily carried out as a surprise party.

The Decoration
The decoration, or decor for short, depends on the choice of venue. For a small celebration in your own garden, flowers, fairy lights, and torches can be used. Those who want to make it even more festive can use table decorations such as floral arrangements and candles. Cloth napkins and table runners also contribute to the festive atmosphere. Other ideas include designs that match the season in color or foil balloons with appropriate lettering. Those who want to rehearse for the real thing – the wedding – can also turn the engagement party into a themed party and adapt the decoration to the chosen theme.
The Perfect Outfit
In addition to all the organizational points, the right outfit also plays an important role. If the engagement party is to follow a certain theme, it is important to inform the guests in advance. Popular ideas include celebrations entirely in white, a black and white party, or a celebration in traditional costume. No matter how the decision turns out, engagement parties are suitable for both simple and festive styles.
The Program
Generally speaking, an engagement party is not as tightly scheduled as a wedding. Nevertheless, the event should run somewhat more structured than, for example, a Polterabend (pre-wedding party). After welcoming the guests, the future engaged couple usually gives a short speech to officially announce the engagement. Afterwards, there is drinking, eating, and – if desired – lively celebrating and dancing. If no games are planned for the wedding reception, the evening is also excellent for fun games and challenges for the future engaged couple. Of course, this assumes that the guests have already been informed of the engagement beforehand.
Food and Drinks
If you want to celebrate your engagement, you should of course also provide your guests with food and drinks. In a restaurant, guests can either order for themselves or receive a pre-selected menu. The latter makes sense especially when the number of guests is somewhat larger and everyone should receive their food at the same time. In this case, it should be clarified in advance whether the future engaged couple will cover the bill or, traditionally, the bride's parents will bear the costs.
At home, there are numerous ideas and possibilities. In summer, a joint barbecue is ideal, where guests can contribute salads or desserts for the buffet. Even more stress-free, but more costly, is hiring a caterer to arrange the buffet. Non-alcoholic beverages, beer, and wine should not be missing either. A real highlight here is self-mixed cocktails for the guests.
Guest Gifts for the Engagement
A guest gift for the engagement is a wonderful gesture to thank the guests for their participation in the celebration. It shows appreciation and remains memorable for the guests for a long time. There are numerous creative ideas for guest gifts that are both personal and practical. Small plants, such as succulents or herb pots, are not only decorative but also sustainable. Chocolates or small bottles of wine are also popular options that always go over well. Those who prefer something more personal can give a photo album or a picture frame with a photo of the engaged couple. Such individual gifts give the engagement party a special touch and make the event unforgettable.
Surprise Engagement Party
A surprise engagement party with an engagement ring made of gold can be an exciting and unforgettable way to celebrate the engagement. The bride's father or mother can invite the guests under a different pretext, such as a family dinner or a birthday party, and then announce the engagement. This surprise brings great joy and emotions to the guests. Such a celebration also offers an excellent opportunity to get to know the family and friends of the couple better and strengthen bonds. The surprise engagement party can take place in a cozy setting at home or in a restaurant, depending on the preferences and budget of the couple.
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